Living in Sin?

A new post I wrote for Living Lutheran about couples living together before marriage.

Listening to young adults

What's the most important thing the Church can do for young adults?

Stop talking and start listening.

I'll admit it's hard especially for us clergy types who have lots of theological training. We want to critique everything with the theological lens we spent so much time obtaining.

And I'm not saying that there isn't a time or place for such critique. But in order to truly welcome those who are not part of the Church we have to lead by example. And that means being open to critique and even repenting for the ways in which we have fallen short of the wide welcome of God's love.

The ELCA's Northeastern Synod did something bold and daring at this year's convention. They invited a group of "nones" (religiously unaffiliated) to tell their stories. They held the floor for an hour and a half and told the delegates things that they probably didn't want to hear.

One of the best comments came from a young woman who said, "“I bristle at someone saying ‘I’ve got this thing (religion) you are missing.’ as if I’m lacking.” Another persistent theme was the perception that the Church wasn't comfortable with theological questions and doubts.

Hopefully others will be inspired by the example of the Northeastern Synod. I know I am.